Why You’re Still Single This 2024—and What Needs to Change

As we approach the end of the year, it’s the perfect time to pause and reflect: Why are you still single? And more importantly, what needs to shift to find your person in 2024? 

Let’s start with some real talk. Have you truly taken intentional steps to heal, grow, and make space for love? It’s not about blaming yourself—it’s about being honest. If you’re still carrying past wounds or repeating the same patterns, it’s time to address them. 

I’ve been there. My own love journey didn’t change until I got real with myself and committed to healing. Reading advice is great, but the magic happens when you implement it. Investing in your personal growth—whether through therapy, coaching, or even those 'woo-woo' practices—can uncover the blind spots holding you back.

The truth? Love starts with responsibility. Blaming bad dates, exes, or dating apps won’t bring you closer to your person. Owning your journey means asking for help when you need it, stepping out of your comfort zone, and embracing the idea that change begins with you.

This December, I challenge you to start building small, powerful habits like journaling or meditating. These practices can reduce anxiety, improve self-awareness, and help you see your love life with fresh eyes. Plus, with cuffing season in full swing, it’s the perfect time to put yourself out there—online, in person, and in ways that align with the love you’re ready to receive.

2024 can be the year you finally find your person. But first, you have to decide: Are you ready to change?

You’ve got this—and I’m here to help every step of the way. 💕