Stop Going with the Flow: The Secret to Finding Your Forever Person
Have you ever found yourself in a "situationship," wondering how you got there? You started with casual dates, ignored the red flags, and suddenly, you’re stuck in an undefined relationship that’s going nowhere. If this sounds familiar, it’s time to make a change—starting now.
The Problem with Going with the Flow
"Going with the flow" might sound carefree and fun, but when it comes to love, it often leads to heartbreak. Without clear intentions, you’re left hoping someone else will define the relationship, and more often than not, they don’t. This pattern wastes your time and drains your emotional energy.
How to Shift to Intentional Dating
The good news? You can rewrite your love story by being intentional. Start with these simple steps:
- Ask the Right Questions Early: On the first few dates, don’t be afraid to ask, “What are you looking for?” If their answer doesn’t align with your goals, it’s okay to walk away.
- Evaluate Your Current Relationships: Take a good look at the people in your life. Are they adding value, or holding you back? It’s time to prioritize connections that support your growth and happiness.
- Commit to Yourself: Write down a reminder like, “Stop going with the flow,” and keep it somewhere visible. This small step will keep you focused on your goals.
The Power of Intentionality
When I stopped settling and became intentional about what I wanted, everything changed. Saying no to the wrong people created space for the right one—my husband. That clarity didn’t just lead me to love; it helped me grow as a person.
This year, let’s break the cycle. Be intentional, set boundaries, and focus on what truly matters. Your forever person is out there, but finding them starts with you.
Are you ready to take the first step? Let’s make this your year for love. 💕
