Why You Haven’t Found Your Person Yet

Finding “the one” can sometimes feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. If you’ve been struggling to meet the right person, it might be due to one (or more) of these reasons:

1. Your Standards Are "Too High" or Too Low
When I say your standards are "too high", I'm talking about those superficial standards such as; "He should be this tall..He should be driving this car or he should be in finance". Having standards is essential, but extremes can lead to challenges. If your standards are "too high", or you're focusing on the physical, you might be overlooking great people; if they’re too low, you might be settling for less than you deserve. Take time to gain clarity on what truly matters in a partner to ensure alignment and avoid future misalignments.

2. You’re Still Carrying Emotional Baggage
If you’re holding on to past hurts, it can make opening up to a new partner difficult. This emotional baggage can lead to misunderstandings and block you from forming a deep connection. It’s important to address and heal from past experiences before fully embracing a new relationship.

3. You Haven’t Realized Your Self-Worth
Your perception of yourself plays a significant role in your dating life. If you don’t see your own value, it can undermine your confidence and attract relationships that don’t serve you. Recognizing your self-worth is crucial for building healthy, fulfilling connections.

4. You Don’t Make Yourself Available
Meeting the right person often requires being in the right places. If you’re not putting yourself out there—whether by attending social events, joining clubs, or trying online dating—you might be missing opportunities to meet your perfect match. Making yourself available increases the chances of finding someone who’s truly compatible.

By addressing these areas, you can clear the path to finding the person who’s right for you. Remember, love often finds you when you’re ready for it. Listen to my podcast for more love and relationship insights.