Signs You Are Not His Priority

If the guy you’re with is not making you his priority, it’s bye-bye time. That’s basically it, it’s that simple. Stop making excuses for him and stay in a relationship that will only add fuel to your story that “all men suck” or “all guys can't commit” or whatever else you keep telling yourself.  

You have to look back and ask yourself the hard questions. Were there any red flags in the beginning of the relationship? Did you ask him what he’s looking for and what are his priorities? Give him that space to open up, and then listen to him! Like really listen to him, and believe him. A guy saying that he doesn’t know what he wants is not an invitation for you to change him. It will never work and you shouldn’t waste your precious time trying to.

What are the signs that you are not his priority?

1. He doesn’t know what he wants - If the guy you are with says he doesn’t know what he wants, believe him! Do not convince him that he should want you. A guy who doesn’t know what he wants means love is not his priority as of the moment, and it is not your responsibility to change his mind.

2. His actions don't align with his words - He said he’s going to call, but he doesn’t, it can be as small as that and it starts to snowball. If he makes promises but it’s also so easy for him to break these promises, that’s a huge red flag that you’re not a priority.

3. He doesn’t include you in his plans - You make all these future plans and you include him in it but when it’s him making his future plans, it seems like you are not in the picture. This only means that he doesn’t see you in his future.

A guy who isn’t making you a priority is not your fault. It just simply means that you are not on the same page and it is not your responsibility to change his mind. Do not waste your time trying to.

If you are ready to find your person and start living happily ever after, but you haven't found them yet and the reason why is because you can't expect different results when you are doing the same thing over and over again. Own your sh*t. 

I have a coaching program that offers you the opportunity to get support in a small group setting so we can work closely together, giving you the chance to be called out with love so you can be guided quickly to find the love that is truly waiting for you. To find out more go to https://www.jackieloor.com/coaching-program

And remember, it has to be Crazy Love or Nothing.

Your love coach,

Jackie