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I Stopped Saying These 3 Things and I Met My Husband

Are you tired of feeling like you'll never find your person? I was there too, until I realized the power of my words and mindset. By changing just three things I used to say, I met Will, my amazing husband of 16 years. If you're still saying these things, let's change it now!

 

SNL gif. Amy Schumer says, "No, shh, shh shh," and steps forward to put both her hands on a woman's face, touching her cheeks and lips to shush her.

 

1. From “There’s no person out there for me” to “The universe has my person out there who is waiting to meet me.”

Trust that your person is out there. Leave no room for doubt. When you believe that your perfect match exists and is just waiting to meet you, you open yourself up to the possibilities of love. This positive shift in thinking can make all the difference.  

2. From “I’m not good enough to have a loving and healthy relationship” to “I am worthy and I will keep showing up authentically.”

Remember your self-worth and be confident in who you are. You are deserving of a loving and healthy relationship, but it starts with believing it yourself. Show up authentically, and the right person will see and appreciate you for who you truly are.

 

"Show up authentically, and the right person will see and appreciate you for who you truly are."

 

3. From “I always attract the wrong guys” to “I will attract the right guy for me and I don’t have to date like crazy.”

It's time to stop the cycle of attracting the wrong people. Affirm that you will attract the right guy who values and respects you. You don’t have to exhaust yourself with endless dates; instead, focus on quality over quantity and trust the process.

 

Always keep in mind that I am here to help you and guide you to know your worth, help you gain clarity on exactly what you want, and call you out when necessary. Together, we can make sure your actions are aligned to create the space to attract and receive him.

Changing these three simple statements transformed my love life, and it can do the same for you. Believe in your worth, trust the process, and get ready to meet your person!

 

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