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A Man’s Perspective on Love & Relationships

Ever wonder what guys are thinking about dating?

I had the opportunity to have this talk with an amazing man, Ismael who is also in the business of helping people find their crazy love. 

 

And I will be sharing what I learned about love & relationships through a man’s perspective

 

1. Not getting physical early on - In general when you have things very easily, you don’t value it that much. And that is also true in dating.

And anything valuable is not easily acquired. This is not about being “hard to get”, but it's about valuing emotional intimacy over physical intimacy.

 

2. When to be vulnerable to someone - I always say to put your heart on your sleeves, but you should also learn when to do this. Ismael said, you should be vulnerable when they earn it. Because If you become vulnerable in the wrong hands, they can use it against you. But how do they earn it? When you can feel the connection is there and authentic, and they start opening up to you too. So always listen to your gut. You will know if a guy is being authentic or not.

 

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3. The place where you meet them matters - As you’re putting yourself out there, it is also important to know where to look for the right person. If you want someone who has an active lifestyle, a place such as the gym is a good place to start. Or if you want someone who has the same interests as you, try attending more events around that interest. This is also a good way to widen your network and meet new people that interest you.

 

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It is true that men and women are different, but we all want to love someone and be loved for who we are. We just have to learn how to navigate the dating scene because not all are dating to find that C.R.A.Z.Y. Love you are looking for.

Listen to the episode and find out more gold nuggets from Ismael.

 

And remember, as you are putting yourself out there, it has to be Crazy Love or Nothing.

 

Your love coach

Jackie

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