April 22, 2024

 Episode 157:

Girl Code and Dating: Why It Matters

Today's episode is going to hit close to home for many of us because we're talking about something we've all experienced: breaking girl/bro code.

You know what I'm talking about—the unspoken rules of girl code and bro code that govern our interactions with friends and potential partners. But have you ever stopped to think about why we break these codes? Well, spoiler alert: it often boils down to one thing—our own insecurities.

In this episode, we're getting real about how violating these codes can be a manifestation of our inner doubts about self-worth. We're sharing personal experiences, moments when we've crossed those lines due to feelings of inadequacy. And let me tell you, it's not always easy to confront those moments, but it's necessary if we want to grow.

We're shining a light on how seeking attention at the expense of others can sabotage our chances of finding a healthy and secure partner for lasting love. Because here's the truth: attracting insecure individuals often stems from projecting our own lack of security. It's a vicious cycle, but one we can break free from.

So, I'm challenging you, dear crazy lovers, to take a good, hard look at your own behaviors when it comes to code violations. Are they driven by ego? Insecurities? It's time to do some soul-searching and course-correct if needed.

Because let me tell you, settling for anything less than a crazy, profound kind of love just isn't worth it. We deserve relationships rooted in self-assurance and mutual respect. And it all starts with confronting our past actions and striving to be better.

Until next time, remember it has to be C.R.A.Z.Y. Love or Nothing!