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Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Guys

Are you tired of meeting guys who seem great at first but turn out to be emotionally unavailable? You’re not alone, and there might be some key reasons behind this frustrating pattern. Let’s break it down:

 

You Have Low Standards
After dealing with toxic or unfulfilling relationships, you may settle for someone slightly better than your ex, even if they’re still lacking emotional availability. It’s easy to overlook red flags when the bar has been set low, but this is where you need to raise your standards.
 

You’re Carrying Emotional Baggage
If past relationships have left you hurt, it can be hard to open up to someone new. This hesitation can create misunderstandings and prevent a deeper connection from forming.

 

You Haven’t Realized Your Self-Worth
How you see yourself shapes what you’re willing to tolerate in a relationship. When you know your worth, you’ll stop settling for less than you deserve.

You Don’t Ask the Right Questions
Sometimes, in the excitement of a new relationship, we avoid asking tough questions for fear of scaring someone off. But asking those questions early on can save you from wasting time and heartache.

 

Which of these do you relate to? Comment on my socials @thejackieloor and let's start a conversation!

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