Who Are The Right People To Listen To When You're Looking To Find Love

You want a happily ever after, but you may be taking advice that could be taking you further away from finding it. Who are you taking advice from?

I have been seeing a lot of people out there giving some outrageous advice that may be leading you away from finding your person. 

One man who gave advice on his Instagram live told women to not be open and honest as soon as you meet men because they may use it against you and play you, but listen to this podcast episode to find out why you need to really be careful about who you are listening to. 

Who Are The Right People To Listen To?

1. People who are not jaded - Imagine asking advice from someone who hates his or her life, a man-hater or woman hater, someone who is bitter towards love. These people are the ones who have the victim mentality, they tend to blame everything on everyone and blame life. They do not own their sh*t. You are not going to get sound advice from someone like that. So don’t waste your time listening to who needs to do a lot of healing and inner work themselves.

2. People who are happily married or happily single - if you want to find real love and get married, then who do you get better advice from than the people who are actually living the life you want! These people are the best people to go to if you want to get a perspective of someone who is actually happy in their relationship. 
It is always good to hear different perspectives from different people. 

3. People who inspire you - Get advice from people you admire. People who you look up to. For sure you can get some good advice from these people, otherwise they wouldn’t inspire you. Inspirational people know something that led them to where they are now and if you aspire to be where they are in their lives, hearing what they have to say and reflecting on it is a good way to start. 

When someone gives you advice regarding love or even life in general, ask yourself, is this person someone in a place I want to be in? Is he/she happily married? Have they had experiences of long healthy relationships? Are they fulfilled and not jaded? 

I don't want you to take sh*tty advice from someone who may be a “player” himself or who doesn't have experience with a long healthy relationship. 

Listen to this episode to see how can trust yourself enough to know whether or not a guy is full of bullsh*t or if he is being authentic so you don't have to put a wall up. 

And remember, as you are putting yourself out there, don't settle for anything less than crazy love, because it has to be Crazy Love or Nothing.

Your love coach,

Jackie