What To Do When You Feel Like You Are Alone

If you feel like nobody understands you and the situation you are going through, this blog is for you.

My heart goes out to all the women feeling like they are not valued, not enough, and feeling stuck in a relationship that dims their light.

Here are some things you can do when you feel like you are alone in your journey:

1. Reach out to a trusted friend - I know you might feel like nobody would understand you or the situation you are in right now, but how can they if you never talk about it with the people close to you? Start with reaching out to 1 good friend who you know will not judge you, who will really listen and try to understand where you are coming from and will be there for you no matter what.

2. Be there for someone - Now this time, it’s your time to be that friend. You know the saying when you are sad, try lifting someone up. 

This will not only help another person, but this will also help you learn how to put yourself in another person’s shoes and you’ll soon realize, there are others who are just like you going through some things they think nobody is going through.

3. Find a community - No man is an island and in your journey to finding love, or just life in general. It is always good to do life with other people who will lift you up and you can lift up. Allow yourself to open up to people who are not jaded and bitter. Allow them to speak over your life and you will get a fresh perspective every time.

If you do not have a community yet, or you are scared of reaching out to those close to you in fear of judgement, you can always reach out to me. DM me @thejackieloor, leave a comment in my socials, whatever it is, I am here to help.

Listen to my podcast when you feel alone and I trust you it will help you feel better.

I feel it deeply in my core that this is my purpose in life and I can truly say to you that I know how it feels to be alone. But I promise you, there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

Your love coach

Jackie