It’s “Bye-Bye” Time: When A Guy Has Cheated In The Past
Before even considering getting into a relationship with someone, you must ask this question first; “Have you ever cheated or been cheated on in the past?”
Don’t be afraid to ask this question because your person will not be intimidated by this question.
Try not to make it sound like an interrogation. Open up first about your experiences with infidelity, and make it a safe space for him to open up to you too.
So now you asked the question, and he answered “YES”. What do you do? Is it “bye-bye” time already? When is it okay to say “bye-bye” and when is it okay to continue with the relationship? Continue reading and find out…
When to say “Bye-Bye” and when NOT to say “Bye-Bye” when a guy has cheated in the past:
- Don’t say “bye-bye” - When he says yes he has cheated BUT he grew from the experience and he learned from his mistakes, it’s not “bye-bye” time.
In this situation, you need to listen to your intuition. Is he being honest? You will feel it.
Don’t say, “Bye-bye” just yet. Try getting to know him more and then decide if it’s “bye-bye” time or not.
- It’s time to say “bye-bye” - When he tries to justify his bad decisions, blames it on his ex, calls her names like, “She was a crazy b*tch!” This is a VERY BIG red flag and this is your green light to run as far as you can! This only means he has no moral compass. He does not regret cheating on his ex and he will probably do it to you too and just end up blaming you for it!
Listen to my entire podcast episode to learn more about when to say “bye-bye” when a guy has cheated. 
Your love coach,
Jackie
