How To Take Control Of Your Dating Life

You are a badass woman who knows what she wants, excels in her career, takes care of herself mentally, physically and spiritually. But sometimes you just can’t help but feel you are not in control of your dating life.

So how do you take back control of your dating life?
Here are some tips you can start doing asap

1. Give them the opportunity to step up -  I know I said taking back control, but that doesn't necessarily mean you do everything for the relationship! Give the guy you are with or talking to the opportunity to step up. Instead of texting him all the time and calling him, planning your next date, why not take a step back and allow him to do those things for you?

2. Reach out to him - Now you have taken the step back, but he’s still not budging. You can reach out!

You have to set that standard for yourself. Two things can happen after that, either he steps up or he will show you he’s not interested in putting in the work.

3. Be brave enough to walk away - You voiced out what you want and now the ball is in his court. But he’s clearly showing you he is not there yet, and that’s okay! It simply means you are not on the same page and he is not your person. This is where you need to be brave enough to walk away. It’s better you face it now and keep yourself available for the right one.

Taking control of your dating life doesn’t necessarily mean you have to be desperate. You are just setting your standards, keeping yourself out of the limbo and not wasting your precious time. 

Because remember, it has to be Crazy Love or Nothing.

Your love coach

Jackie

P.S. Listen to my podcast to learn more ways on how you can take back control of your dating life!