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How To Date If You Are A Single Mom Or If You Want Kids

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Single moms or ladies who want kids who are dating, you’re going to want to keep reading.

 

You think dating without a kid is already hard enough and now that you have a kid, you think it is impossible for you to find your person. 

 

Here are 3 Tips to Keep in Mind:

 

1Kids are valuable - Change your mindset about being a single parent. Don't think of your kids as baggage. 

 

2. Own it - How many kids do you want? Three kids? Five or more? Own it! Don't hide it from him in fear of him not sticking around. There will be less anxiety if you own what you desire in your life. Opening up to him in the first hour of talking will allow for both of you to connect on a deeper level. 90 Day Fiance Kids GIF by TLC

 

3. Lean into life - When you are confident in your desires and dreams,  you allow the universe to show up for you. So don’t give up on your dreams, don’t dismiss what you truly want, and make sure to live intentionally. Show up and the universe will show up for you too. Never Give Up Fox GIF by So You Think You Can Dance

 

Going on dates is a big deal. You have to know if you are on the same page, do not waste your time. Do you want the same things? Tell them what you want and don’t “play the game”. 

 

And if you don't want kids, that's not a bad thing either. To each their own, right? 

 

But the sooner you know if you want kids, want more kids, or don't want any kids, the better. You don’t want to be investing too much of your time and emotions with a man only to find out you are not on the same page when it comes to important decisions such as having a family. 

 

Listen to my entire episode here to know more about owning what you want in a relationship and not settling for less. 

And remember, it has to be Crazy Love or Nothing.

Your love coach

Jackie




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