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How To Break The Pattern Of Dating The Wrong Guys

F*ck your type!

If you want to find love you need to know what you want and see it crystal clear. Writing a list will help give you clarity and help you break your dating pattern.

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So How Do I Break The Pattern Of Dating The Wrong Guys?

 

1. Have a list - Know what you really want. What’s on your list? First thing you need to know is that you shouldn't have anything physical on it. You may have said that you want a taller guy or a guy with a good head of hair and I need you to toss that sh*t out of the way! 

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2. Recognize that you are in a pattern - I need to call you out and tell you to own your sh*t. 

Perhaps you may say, “Yeah you know what? I always go for the tall guys or I always go for the muscular guys or I always go for guys who are tall, dark and handsome.”


I know It's easier said than done because you're in a pattern. You like a certain type of guy and you are used to just reacting to those types of guys.

 

 

3. Stop going out with your type! - Challenge yourself. Like when you go anywhere, don't talk to the guy that you normally would talk to all the time like the player guy, the guy that's on the hunt and on the prowl and talking and dancing to everybody. Someone you know who’s only looking to have a good time.

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I want you to see that you are amazing. You so deserve love. So I need you to stop wasting time on these wrong guys. Enough with “your type”, okay? Because those types have failed you in the past.

 

So f*ck your type.

 

Because remember, it has to be Crazy Love or Nothing.

 

Your love coach,

Jackie

 



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