How Being Around Happy Couples Is An Advantage For You

How do you feel about happily in love people?

Happy? Sad? Annoyed? 

I have heard from so many women how they don’t want to be around couples who are in love because they think these people are being  obnoxious and they believe these couples are not truly happy. Like, what?!

These women do not realize they are only hurting themselves by avoiding happily in love people.

If you are one of these women, your feelings are valid but..I want you to realize that

being around happy couples is actually an advantage for you and here’s why:

1. Ask how they found each other - If you want to find your person, surrounding yourself with happily in love couples is a good way to do this. Not only will this give you hope that there is love out there, but you can actually ask them how they found each other and incorporate what you learn from them in your own dating life! So take notes!

2. Gives you hope - Going through plenty of heart aches can make you cynical about dating, if you don’t have self awareness, this can make you jaded and bitter. We’ve all been there, but you have to heal yourself and you will know if you have truly healed from your past relationships when you can now be truly happy with others happiness and you become hopeful again. 

3. Observe them - We can actually learn from happy couples by observing them. How are their relationship dynamics? How does the small stuff affect their relationship? How do they handle quarrels and misunderstanding? What aspect do you think they are lacking and can improve on? These things can help you and hopefully be able to apply to your own dating life and your own relationship in the future.
It can sometimes be hard to be happy for other people's happy relationship when you are not in a good place, this only means you still have a lot to work on yourself. Remember that your person is out there and it will be your turn next time, so while you haven’t found him yet, continue to work on yourself.

Listen to this episode and find out more on how surrounding yourself with happily in love people becomes an advantage for you if you want to find your happily ever after too. 

And remember, as you're putting yourself out there, don't settle for anything less than crazy love, because it has to be Crazy Love or Nothing.

Your love coach

Jackie