Bachelor in Paradise Reveals Biggest Mistakes Women Make When Dating

Let’s talk about Bachelor in Paradise

It doesn't matter if you haven’t seen it, don’t watch it or you don't care about it.

What happened on the show is something that I know we all do. I've done it for years and it's a huge, huge problem!

So this girl on the show, Victoria, had it in her mind of what she wanted in a partner and she told the guy she was dating, Johnny, all about it. The problem wasn’t that she knew what she wanted and told Johnny, the problem was HOW she went about doing that. 

Here are the 3 biggest mistakes Victoria made:

1. No clarity on what she really wanted - She mentioned she had a checklist but she wasn’t too sure what was on the list. The universe wants you to meet your person. So it’s really important to understand and have it clear in your head of what you really want in a partner and how to get it. She didn’t know how to do that.

2. She wavered - Johnny didn’t like the checklist and convinced Victoria that love comes first and then they can figure out all of the other stuff later. 

 3. Got intimate with him too soon - The biggest reason she had trouble saying “bye-bye” to Johnny is because she was intimate with him way before she found out if he was a good fit or not. Getting physical with someone does get you attached to someone. 

So ladies, to avoid these mistakes you need to make sure you know what you really want and be FIRM about it. Do not waver. 

Just because he says “NO” doesn’t mean you’ll succumb to what he wants and abandon your standards and desires, right?

This is why I keep telling you to not be intimate with a guy before building an emotional connection and finding out his intentions to avoid being attached easily to the wrong guys.


The guy who will check off all of your boxes is out there! Just make sure to be firm with what you want and learn to say “bye-bye” to those who don’t make the list, because remember, it has to be Crazy Love or Nothing.

Your love coach,

Jackie