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5 Tips for Using Dating Apps to Attract a High-Value Man

If you're ready to find the love of your life online, these five tips can help you attract the high-value man you've been dreaming of. My clients have used these strategies, and they found the love of their lives shortly after.

 

1. Choose Your Photos Wisely
Your photos are the first thing a potential match will notice, so make sure they reflect the real you. A selfie is great, but avoid anything that looks like a thirst trap. Instead, mix it up with a photo of you enjoying an activity or hobby and a full-body shot in a decent outfit that shows off your confidence.

 

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2. Show Off Your Intellect
If you want to attract a high-value man, your profile should have depth. Highlight your interests, passions, and what you’re looking for in a partner. A well-rounded profile with a bit of intellectual flair will draw in the kind of man who values more than just looks.

 

 

3. Give Men Outside Your Type a Chance

It's easy to get caught up in superficial qualities like appearance or height, but focusing too much on these could make you miss out on someone truly amazing. High-value men come in all shapes and sizes, so be open to connecting with someone who aligns with your values, even if they don’t fit your usual “type.”

 

4. Don’t Wait to Be Chosen

Take control of your dating life by choosing the men you’re interested in. Don’t just sit back and wait for them to find you—be proactive! When you take the initiative, you increase your chances of connecting with high-value men who might otherwise slip through the cracks.

 

5. Move Off the Apps and Into Real Life

Once you've matched with someone, don’t linger too long on the app. Let him know you’re available for a date and take the conversation to text. Meeting in person is the best way to see if there’s real chemistry and to start building a genuine connection.

 

These tips are here to help you shine and attract a man who will value and adore you for your true self. Listen to my podcast for more love, dating and relationship insights.

 

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